Here
are some more tips to help parents survive their
child’s tryout camp.
The
tryout camp is a very stressful time for most hockey
parents because they’re not sure if their son or
daughter will be picked or not.
They
have no control over the outcome of making the team
or being released.
And
if their child is released, it’s very upsetting for
many parents and players.
At
the start of the tryout camp some parents bring the
coach a coffee, others volunteer their services to
help with the tryout camp.
Some
will ask for feedback about their child’s
performance, while others keep their distance and
respect the coaches decision.
It’s
a personal choice as to what interaction parents
have with the Head coach at this time.
The
one universal quality parents must supply is
encouragement and support for their child no matter
what happens.
Making or not making the Rep/Travel Team is very
important to your child, otherwise they wouldn’t
have tried out in the first place.
If
your son or daughter is released at tryout camp it
is a very traumatic
experience especially if they believe they were good
enough to make the team
and were better than 1 or 2 certain players chosen.
There
are other options for parents if their child is
released.
You
can ask your local Minor/Youth Hockey Association
President for
permission to try out with another Association’s
Rep/Travel Team.
Or
you can try out with the next lower Rep. team in
your own local Minor
Hockey Association and possibly become an “Affiliate
Player” being called up to the higher team in case
of sickness or injury.
Or
you can return to the local House League, have lots
of fun, score a tonne of
goals and enjoy playing with your friends.
Good
luck to all Players and Parents at this year’s
tryout camp and have an exciting and enjoyable
hockey season.
John
Shorey
Author –
“Hockey Made Easy”